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Originally Posted by ultramar
Did she say your feelings were "wrong?" What exactly did she say?
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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
Your feelings were not right or wrong, feelings are just as they are - they are based on our appraisal of a situation and sometimes that can be based on prior experiences etc.. It sounds as if your feelings were based on the belief that she had forgotten about you and didn't care, so therefore feeling that way is understandable.
But hypothetically, what if it were "just" an administration error and she had not forgotten about you?
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Well if that was the case which I now know it is the result is still the same, she wasn't there! I have never known a doctor or a dentist to not show up for an appt. it was a mistake I realise that but for her to not understand how it felt to be stood up, it's absurd!
I just wish she could have understood that it hurt and if she had of just said sorry I would have been ok about it.