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Old Apr 10, 2013, 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted by button30 View Post
She said that I took it personally when it was an administration error and that she did not forgett about me. She was distracted at our last session and forgot to write it in the book.
She also said that The getting hurt part was a coincidence, and how much you hurt yourself around it depends on how you choose to think about it in the context in which you are. If that makes sense.
This has made me really mad on your behalf. You can't just choose not to be hurt. And I don't believe in coincidences, necessarily. Consciously, she made an admin error. Unconsciously? Who knows. You can't know. You only know how it's affecting you.

Your T should accept you as you are, not how she thinks you should be.
Thanks for this!
Syra, ~EnlightenMe~