you act like she is property, but she is not.

You want her and admire her, but nobody else should do that too. how come?

have you seen the film ' the first beautiful thing'?
she is married (and in love) with a man that chose her for what she was but cannot stand other men to admire her too

blaming her for what you feel is something you should forbid yourself
but maybe you don't think it's such a big deal.

Until the day she walks away.
Too bad maybe, but you won't be pissed anymore.

By the way, that's what happens in the movie