No. I'm sorry Sannah but I find your post rather unhelpful. You shouldn't HAVE to put these boundaries on, it's not fair or right.

This isn't about expecting someone to look after you. It's about objecting to unacceptable behaviour that you shouldn't have to object to.

Sannah, please understand that some people cannot stand up for themselves due to learned helplessness. Posts like yours are unhelpful to survivors. Sorry to be so blunt, but please understand that it's not as simple as you make it sound.