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Old Apr 10, 2013, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by BonnieG2010 View Post
you act like she is property, but she is not.

You want her and admire her, but nobody else should do that too. how come?

have you seen the film ' the first beautiful thing'?
she is married (and in love) with a man that chose her for what she was but cannot stand other men to admire her too

blaming her for what you feel is something you should forbid yourself
but maybe you don't think it's such a big deal.

Until the day she walks away.
Too bad maybe, but you won't be pissed anymore.


By the way, that's what happens in the movie
Thank you for good advice and a movie recommendation!

Re: the bold part. Maybe that will be the best outcome - meaning, the swiftest way to learn. Having consequences to one's behavior may work better than getting wisdom of the crowds. OP will be on his best behavior with the subsequent girlfriend. Won't work to get this gf back, though.
Thanks for this!
BonnieG2010