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Originally Posted by iliketherain
I don't know if this is good, but, we are still friends on Facebook. In fact, I have looked at his profile several times and it seems like he's drinking a lot more - which may account for his lack of attempts to get in touch with me.
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I am not that familiar with FB to know whether the act of unfriending is observable by the unfriended party as a rule or only by happenstance. Say, in Google Drive, if someone removes you as an editor/viewer, you are not notified as a rule - you will notice by
happenstance only, seeing that the doc/spreadsheet/presentation... is no longer displayed in the list of files on your Google Drive's main page.
BUT... even if it is only observable by happenstance, as in Google Drive, it IS observable, and I think your not unfriending him is GOOD, from that standpoint, because you are letting sleeping dogs lie. If he sees that you have unfriended him, it may instigate a chain reaction in him.
So I think that you are doing all the right things.