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Hellion · Apr 10, 2013, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by wadingthruemotions

So I have been told I have to forgive myself for the past. (Also to forgive those who have hurt me in anyway).

It is said I will find some peace if I do this and can then begin to heal.

So how the heck do you do that? I haven't managed to do this in 38 years. So how do I just magically say oh well I am over it all?

Seriously, I have no flipping clue, I need to, don't know if I am ready, or will ever be ready.

:banghead :

Honestly I am not so sure its nessisary to forgive those who have wronged you, I just don't feel one is obligated to do so. I can see moving past the anger and hurt you feel about it at least as best as you can so you can move on with your life....I guess I'd say its best to save forgiveness for those who will appreciate it and learn from their mistake not people who don't give a damn and will likely continue wronging other people.

Also you don't have to ever be over it all, its not a weakness on your part there are some things people can't get over and that's ok.