Sometimes you hit someone's "hot button" without realizing it or intending it. I remember crying in church when the pastor's wife got up to announce she was pregnant with her 3rd child & I couldn't have any more (I desperately wanted more children but have come to accept it now).

I think you have done your best to apologize & you just have to realize now that it is HER problem. She's the one who is overreacting, since you explained yourself quite capably & apologized for any pain you caused her.

As far as her reading the article, I don't know if you have any choice if she wants to approve it. I'm sure it will come out fair & she will see that. You aren't doing a hatchet job on her--just trying to get the correct info. & writing it an informative way. Take care & lighten up on yourself.--Suzy