Now see.... I dont get this at all! I had a bf like you once, and this trophy / property business was the most off-putting thing ever, and this is the thoughts and feelings it evoked in myself:

If I'm so beautiful, why can't you feel pride when a guy checks me out? Why can't you think "ha! fellas you can look but aint no way in hell you can touch! She's with me" or something along those lines...

Why can't you be proud that you snagged a beautiful intelligent, FAITHFUL gf, instead of possessive and laugh at the guys who are too late and missed their chance?

I feel like a prized possession who's owner wants to lock me in a glass trophy case. I AM NOT A FKN TROPHY, and I am CHOOSING to be with you, I wasn't won in a freaken competition!

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I share this with you so you may have some insight into your trophy's side of the deal...

People have eyes and people appreciate beauty. Its good and natural. Expecting people to not look is irrational and COMPLETELY unreasonable. It is THEIR eyes, you don't get to dictate what they look at. Why that threatens you is YOUR issue, you have NO business making it your gf's issue. EVER.

Why do you choose a beautiful gf and then punish her for being beautiful. THAT is stupid, not the guys checking her out!

If you cant fix this, and essentially can't handle dating a beautiful girl, time to go for a nice strictly traditional Muslim girl like hammy suggested, or an "unnattractive" girl. That way you won't worry who's looking at her.

A word to the wise, the tighter your grip, the faster she WILL flee.

Remember, she chose to be with you, does that not count for anything?

Goodluck with the changing, the apology, the sweet gestures and not chasing her off as if you had a contagious flesh eating virus.