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Originally Posted by coolhair
I read somewhere that I should wait until the 10th date, and even then just say things like "I have problems regluating my emotions, with abandonment, etc".
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This is probably good advice. In my experience, telling people about BPD even after a good, long while isn't easy. People don't understand well. There's a huge stigma about mental illness, and BPD isn't like telling someone you deal with something like depression.
I have no experience with SI myself, that would definitely be a good thing to ask about in the SI forum. Best of luck.