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Originally Posted by wadingthruemotions
So I have been told I have to forgive myself for the past. (Also to forgive those who have hurt me in anyway).
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So I am sure that I have bored everybody who has the misfortune of reading my posts to death by now by repeatedly posting this link:
SMART criteria - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Is forgiveness a good (=SMART) goal?
No.
It is NOT S=Specific
It is NOT M=Measurable
It is more often than not NOT A=Attainable (hence, your OP, right?)
Is it R=Relevant? I do not know; it is probably a matter of belief.
Is it T~time-specific? I do not think so, from observing how others struggle with it.
So... no point to keep trying and trying until it clearly and immediately benefits you.