Freewill, I so understand what you are saying. You want a therapist who can support you in your goals, not one who has his/her own agenda. My own T is ok with allowing me to set the agenda. Just don't be surprised if after some time of working with a therapist you like and trust, that you begin to have an interest in the very things you don't right now........
Wishing you success in finding a competent, experienced therapist who can support you in your quest for support.
Take care,