Have you told her that YOU expect the same respect that you show HER? That you expect her to STAY OUT of your personal postings/writings, and you will stay out of HERS? Have you told her that? If you haven't, it's time you did.

I expect common respect. I expect nothing more, but I'll ACCEPT nothing LESS! Maybe this is something you should say to your wife. This is always how I've felt -- well at least since I divorced my mentally/emotionally abusive husband. LOL

She's abusing your "space." Everyone is entitled to some personal "space" and she is too. You've recognized that and haven't invaded hers. Now SHE has to recognized that and stop invading your space.

I advise that you two go to marital counseling. You might not need to go very long, but you still should go. Issues like these just tend to go to seed and start to "grow" other issues and pretty soon the whole marriage is screwed. So look into counseling, and make an appointment. You WON'T regret it.

I wish you the very best! Keep us posted, and God bless. Hugs, Lee