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Originally Posted by shezbut
Olive,
You are at an age where your body has developed a lot of curves, which catch a lot of boys' eyes. It feels good to pick up on a person's attraction to you.
In the mid-teenage years, we seem to become more and more aware of how boys and men are willing to do all sorts of things in order to be allowed to view, feel etc. A lot of times, somewhere along the way, girls forget to ask themselves how they feel. That's a really important aspect! While part of you may really enjoy the attention, and even crave it (to some extent), you need to ask yourself how you feel about *James having some control over you physically.
Personally, I would advise you to be a little more careful in the way that you dress and your actions, so they aren't misinterpreted as come-on's by guys.
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hey shezbut, i know my top half curves make it fun to lean over hehe i made a bad mistake when they first got big and leaned on my teacher's shoulder at his desk [but he didnt say anything so hopefully it seemed like just accidental etc]. i will be more careful. teen boys have done things and i learned a lesson but i only feel scared around teen boys and i still dress with less around matures. well at tennis its pretty safe cos there are enough people at the court so nobody can do anything wrong anyway, so feels safe to dress small there. but walking in the quiet streets its a bit dangerous and i wear leggings under my skirt for that smartly!