I had posted a few weeks ago about how my T offered a hug but not to me. We're beginning our 3rd year working together and we've never hugged although she did hug my gf last month when she came to session with me.

Yes, yes, I know - I must convey to T my interest in getting a hug. Especially after this past weekend when I had the biggest event of my life and my appreciation for my T's wanting to hear from me how it went, I feel the desire to hug her in gratitude.

But what concerns me is how do we progress after that. With my gf's T, there's always a hug before session and after session and it feels natural when I've gone with her to her T.

But, if I initiate one today in 1/2 hour does that mean she'll think I'll expect it from now on? Do I even want to hug each time? Probably not. idk

Gawd, in RL it's easier.

Probably I will not initiate one today. Why the hey is this so hard? I went through something 100x more difficult just a few days ago.

hmmmmmm