I will probably ask for my file about a month or so after the end of the relationship. My agency claims that they can limit access during the relationship and I will want to take my time at digesting it if it is heavy or anything. I prefer to have the T met out the information in a more tactful and gradual way during the relationship. This is only my third T.
I saw a psychologist in college but I am pretty sure that the file does not exist anymore because that was in 1993 and I saw my next T in 2005. So she wasn't too interested in where the psychologist was. I just told her his opinion. He popped up with it during a session without me even asking him. I never really fully considered the idea that he might try to diagnose me with something! I guess I should have figured on that part. Ts seem to like to "give me a mental disorder." I joke that it is the Ts who give us the mental disorders. We just display the symptoms before that. HEHE. I sometimes joke that he accused me of having a mental disorder. Wellll, I better get to bed or wont want to get up at all tomorrow.