Your soon to be ex husband appears to be a naive idiot. Usually, 22-y-o women in third world countries are picking up older American guys in bars in an effort to get immigration benefits. There are always exceptions, but that is the rule.

In the case of this particular woman - he was not the best catch for her because he is not single. He still needs to go through the process of the divorce, which will take time, and during that time he might change his mind. But, it was the best she could get.

To reiterate: In addition to all the other bad things about the husband that have been extensively discussed on this thread, he is a naive idiot.

Do you want to be married to a naive idiot?

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