Sounds like you are trying to have us all confirm to you what you already know in your heart. This is so unfair of you to do this.

Do you not realize just how much most of us are aware of the constant pain and anguish we put our family, friends an support networks through? WE KNOW THE PAIN YOU ARE DEALING WITH - WE ARE DEALING WITH THE SAME PAIN - JUST ON THE OTHE SIDE OF IT !!!!

1) Should we stay and watch you suffer through something we cannot seem to get control of?

2) What if I leave and get better, but end up loosing you forever, and my children, if there are any involved.

3) How is this going to affect my children? Is this genetic? Will they have to go through this as well?

The questions can go on and on and on and on. ON BOTH SIDES! Please do not underestimate the pain of your husband. Do you really think that his desperation is unnoticed by him?

Do what YOU MUST, for you and your children - especially your children! I suggest going back and reading your post - you are already answering the questions you are struggling with.

Don't put the pressure on us to make that FINAL decision for you - YOU HAVE ALREADY MADE IT!!!! We have enough to deal with here!

Harsh? Yes. The truth? Yes. The truth is often harsh - for all of us!

Altered State