i see what you are saying i agree but sometimes we need to see if the past had contributed to the future it hurts because there are things we would rather forget but we are the one who choose what we do with our lives no therapy can change our decisions but if it bothers you so just let that therapist go pehaps there is another who can help i had a geat on in my teens who to figure out my rebellion he had my write in a journal everytime i got angry for no matter what reason i was to right in the journal i it helped i recieved the help i needed but i dunno i just hope everything works out for you . you seem like such a nice person well hugs and luvs steph