I had a hard time voting because my situation is a bit different from any of those scenarios. My t does give advice at times, but when she does, she normally tests me out with phrases like,

"Have you considered trying this?"

"Would you be willing to practice such-and-such this way?"

"How do you think it would work if you did it this way?"

She doesn't tell me what to do, but gives me ideas to try if I am willing to consider or try them.