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Apr 12, 2013, 10:05 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: California
Posts: 2,248
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Sometimes when I withdraw I am taking care of myself, helping myself breath, comforting myself.
Soemtimes when I withdraw I am sulking and hoping to punish the other for making me feel so bad. 
Sometimes when I withdraw I want a time-out until we can calm down so it doesn't escalate.
I'm not sure someone else could tell the difference (except for when I actually articulate a time-out to calm down.
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