I have contacted the woman twice about events that were reasonably distressing. I did so in order to tell someone who would not react to the information and so I could say it in a less ordered fashion unlike how I needed to deal with real people in my life. I did not talk to her/exchange contact, I just gave the information so I could do it. I did not want a discussion with her about it or any response from her. The ability for me to tell her such things is that she will generally stay away.

I very rarely tell the woman about anything that goes well in or out of appointments. Telling her stuff that goes well is awful for me in her reaction to it.