Thank you.
I can handle pushy.
It's funny: much as I am terrible with people in many ways, I was involved in some heavy negotiations once for some months and I loved it because I could actually deal with the conflict directly. Of course, I'm not so good with diplomacy and being aware of relationships, but at least I know that now so I could rely on someone else on that score. I would like to use those skills, too, because I was great at it. Conflict doesn't faze me in the least. I was raised in it. It's being comfortable and happy that I have only begun to get used to now that I have my wonderful husband who is like a twin to me. And, yes, I am very grateful for him.