firstly I am a big chicken, I would never admit to looking at gay pron even if it is something I do. The world is far top curel for that.

secoundly I am not bothered by female w/ female pron, and I am female. Not gay but married to a man. Just something of interest to watch. I also watch guys w/ girls.

third, you seem very concerned about the opinions of others. Paying so much attention and anticipating something bad to be said can lead you to believe things where said when they really were not. I agree why not just ask, "Hey did I hear you right" problem solved. Being of the personality type that I have, very nonconfrontational, I myself would never ask that though. But that would be the best option.