Don't believe in recreation sex myself, but sometimes people are okay with that. I've gotten hurt while having casual sex, but I think the guy was a jerk instead of a gentleman. Another man (and this is the last man I was with was really sick). He liked to cross dress, was an alcoholic, and sexual positions were like dead people. He didn't know what he was doing so I'd rather not go there personally. But if you have someone who cares (good luck with that)!