I don't know why this happens, but it sounds pretty common.
I wonder if it would help for you to go off by yourself at your regular time and have a meeting with her in your mind. You supply your part,and then you supply her part. I know it wouldn't be the same. Or take the time to draw a picture for her, or do a sand tray therapy with yourself to show her.
I don't know what made me think of these. Part of me thinks it sounds really stupid, and perhaps insulting and minimizing. Part of me is thinking "I'm going to try that," - it feels like it has possibilities. Have to admit I haven't tried it. Never thought of that before.
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