OTHER: I don't usually contact outside of session, I have once or twice when I was spiraling, but that's about it. I don't usually tell about major events in or out of session. I didn't tell her that I was going thru cancer again until I lost my hair, and then it was obvious. I know, I'm weird. I do tell her about past important life events, I just don't want to hear "pity" reactions from current ones.