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So I am confused on how I feel. Do I love him? Do I hate him? Can a person love and hate someone at the same time?

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Yes.... this feeling is very normal and are often where many of us live once we have been wounded by a loved one - past or present.

What I would suggest is that YOU look at the facts and see if these reactions of your step-father are still true today (or) are YOU holding onto the past, therefore, YOU are not fully enjoying the moment in which YOU now live.... and please know that we all understand how WORDS can hurt.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -

Maybe look into reading this book.... it was recommended to me by my T and it has greatly helped me to understand how the past will and does effect me today - if I do not let it go.

1.) Feelings Buried Alive Never Die:
http://www.booksamillion.com/ncom/bo...pid=0911207023