As I stated you can do some investigating on the web and find out what constitutes good therapy and red flags to look for. If you feel uncomfortable with anything he says, you should tell him. The therapy is for you.

As for saying "you will get over it." He has no way of knowing that. No one does. Therapists aren't supposed to give advice or tell you what to do (sounds weird, I know), but they are supposed to give you tools to make good decisions for your life.