You have my vote. I believe you have tried to rectify the situation by explaining again, what your intention was. If she won't accept that, well, then that is HER problem.

And, if you don't have to, don't show her the article before it is published, because if she hasn't accepted your explanation for the misunderstanding, do you really think she will be accepting of your article? Me thinks not.

Personally, I would take great pleasure in not allowing her to read the article beforehand, but these are my own control issues. I'm so mean....

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