well I was very happy when my divorse was final because if someone wants out, it's best to just let it go and be thankful that this person is gone, look at it as a brand new start first of all getting yourself together before trying to put someone else in it!!!! and once you are confident in yourself the right ones wil come along, it's called "law of attraction you get what you put out!! So put out positive and that is what you will recieve. Good Luck.