Just depends, as for me I took that first year to just get myself together. to think of it in a positive way, a brand new beginning!! To be able to make my life the way I want it to be, to put out positive vibes, so that is what I will attract, and then if someone comes along I make sure I am ready to entertain the thought of somone else,If it doesn't fell rightm you arent ready yet, you still have some work to do on you!! but don't be sad, be glad you have a second chance at being happy. Good luck.