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Old Apr 13, 2013, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted by ECHOES View Post
I think that statement was meant matter-of-factly, but you may be hearing it as an angry statement. What do you think?

Accommodating and tracking scheduling exceptions is extra work for the boss, and I can empathize with that, too.

Sometimes we are limited by work schedules. Frustrating, for sure.
I know, I was a manager -when people change their schedules it's a huge pain in the butt! I was probably over-sensitive to what she wrote, yes. It was in the context, though, of a series of such comments over time. In most jobs it wouldn't matter much, I almost always have appointments during lunch, but in my job that does cause problems since we don't have set lunches, it depends on patient need. In any case, I talked to my therapist about my reaction to her, and I've definitely learned from it -it really is mostly my 'stuff' but I'm glad it led me to finally take steps to file that paperwork and protect myself for the future.
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ECHOES, wotchermuggle
Thanks for this!
ECHOES