Thanks gang for the support. And, for affirming that I've done the right thing.

I actually HAVE hired an investigative agency. THey don't feel he's an imminent threat to me and kids physcially, but agree there's a significant problem. They can't diagnose, because they've never met him.

And, I DO have TONS of records -- emails, photos, ...the investigators have talked to previous ex-spouse (one other can't be found). But, the big problem is that many of the people on my contact list don't want to get into details, or don't want to get involved. Or, if they do, it has to remain confidential. So, I don't know how much help that is. We'll see.

As far as moving is concerned -- ha! I can't now because I've been restrained by the court not to move the kids. And, he's a computer security expert -- he'd find me.

Doin' all I can think of. I'd LOVE to find out what he really "is" but w/o a psych eval (which he's skipped out on once already), what can I do?

I'm only worried that if he does get into an eval situation that he'll be able to BS or fool the evaluator 'cause he can seem so NORMAL.