I do not know why the one therapist, the one I cannot seem to quit for good, and I are adversarial. I do not have an adversarial situation with the second one. I think it is because the first reacts and the second one will sidestep so there is nothing for me to push back against. The first is more impatient and the second can wait. The first wants (and often does) to tell me her opinion and the second does not. The first makes fun of me/mocks me/tries to be funny and the second does not. The first one does not listen or take me seriously and the second one does. The first one is the one I called when I got in an accident recently and the second one is not. The first did not call me back and the second one would have. The first one criticizes me for not trusting her enough or being vulnerable enough to her and the second does not.