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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
This guy also enjoyed his own thing more AFTERWARDS because he felt that with what he called a "checkmark" checked off, he was free to enjoy himself without worries, feelings of inadequacy, etc.
While I may not like to think of my orgasm as somebody's checkmark, but, still, I definitely understand where he is coming from.
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Yes unfortunately it does feel that way a lot of the time. I think it's important to have sessions where you absolve him of any responsibility to pleasure you. Make it all about him. And vice versa.