Many people have judged me as being a drain upon the economy, as though I'm "abusing the system", because I look perfectly normal. Even my ex-hub and family members!

That always brings me down.
My disabilities are completely misunderstood ~ epilepsy, TBI, and major depression. Sometimes, I become very angry that U.S. society is so judgmental. Mostly, however, their anger and resentment towards myself & the Social Security system normally ends up feeding into my self-hate cycle.