If you are asking about yourself, I don't think you are ugly. I think you are very pretty. I think there is more than looks to a releationship. I think generally people with the same view on beauty fit together. I.e. super models and body builder being together. Then you have average people that just enjoy life find being together what works for them. I think you just have to find someone you are attracted to and then find someone who is attracted to you. After that I think personality and values take over and those make or break the releationship.