There in lies the problem. The current example is a simple one. My roomie has given too us as a group a chores list there was some arguement going on as too who should do what house work and what has getting done by whom. So we had to initial the form like a store bathroom chart LOL but I went with it as i wouldn't get stuck with everything. I found one room mate CHEATING going back to past days and penciling in when they didn't do things!

I was so miffed I was angry for two days. I was furious at the childishness of it all at the fact that the work that was done byanother a day before and remained clean was taken as credit the next day as having been done again when it merely hadn't needed done again. and was claimed as new work. Now granted I was justified for being upset but for TWO days? I should have been able to let it go and calm down. Instead I was so angry I couldn't sleep until I found a way around the cheat, Which I did. HA on them. BUT... why couldn't I be calm and let go of the fury that I was being mistreated? You know Mountain out of a MOLE hill aspect of the thing?