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Old Oct 26, 2006, 09:16 PM
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You can't have someone "loving" you that you've never met. You have to establish a relationship over time. She may be "infatuated" with you but she doesn't know you, or you her just by email/Web. The situation/setup could be scaring you; you can't "reject" something/someone you don't "know." You have to have a "real" relationship before you can judge whether you want/don't want. You may be depressed but that's not necessarily why you're "reluctant" and not persuing the relationship.
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