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Originally Posted by mister-a
. I don't mean to seem attention seeking at all, it is just so hard to find people though, that can maybe understand and see me as real, even it is difficult not to be invisible , i don't know what to do
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Hi there. I think that everyone needs attention. It's just that those who aren't getting what they need can resort to negative behaviors to try and fill that void. When people refer to "attention seeking", it thus has a negative slant. There are, however, positive ways to seek attention. Have you tried any of the following?
Volunteering your time to help other people.
Being considerate to others.
Having good manners.
Dressing nicely.
Smelling good.
Achievement - grades, sports, awards, etc.