Lola, try Getting the Love You Want. It was helpful the first time H and I were having trouble. Of course, our trouble the second time around was CAUSED by the same book when I found out he didn't actually read it the first time around. But anyyyyyhoooowwww.

I WISH there was a way to prevent myself from unblocking people. What the **** am I thinking, clicking the 'view post' button? Nothing good ever comes from it, particularly when I'm already on edge waiting for test results on my daughter, due dates on appeals looming, and having to deal with my mother. I just end up being the bad guy every freaking time even when I am not trying to be.