{{{{{{{{{{{{{Lin-Lin}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I am so sorry about your kitty. I miss my magical Foo so much and he passed away 4 years ago. He would let me rest my head on his stomach when I had a headache and the pain would go away. I had lots of headaches back then because of all the repressed emotion. I know how important our kitties can be. Have you done a special ceremony for Sarah Lee? We have funerals when our people love ones die but often we forget to give our pets the same treatment because so many people poo poo the importance of the love they give us. I still burn a candle for Foo when I find myself missing him alot.
Carrie

<font color=green>But the implicit and usually unconscious bargain we make with ourselves is that, yes, we want to be healed, we want to be made whole, we're willing to go some distance, but we're not willing to question the fundamental assumptions upon which our way of life has been built, both personally and societally.--Bill Plotkin, Soulcraft