I just don't understand this at all. Where does the family come into this? How is it going to effect THEM? Why should you even CONSIDER them?

I don't understand. I don't see why it should be ANY of their business. I really don't. Especially since it's COUSINS. And if something went wrong, WHAT in the world would effect THEM?

They are being the most ridiculously SELFISH people on the face of the earth. They think that everything effects THEM. This is between you and this guy. And to be blunt, this GUY is selfish too -- why does HE think it would effect them? Why is HE concerned with them? If he loves you, that should be enough. Evidently that 'love' isn't that deep and I think you're probably well rid of him.

If he loved you truly and deeply, NOTHING would stand in his way. You two would just plain get married, regardless of family -- ESPECIALLY COUSINS!!!

I just don't get this family. Unless there's alot more to this, they're toxic, and I wouldn't tell them anything more about my life -- at any time.

Sorry I'm being so blunt but this really rattled my cage. God bless you and I hope you find someone that DESERVES you. Take care. Hugs, Lee