There are many different ways a good mother. And there are many different ways to love and support your child.

It also strikes me that this post is about motherhood and not fatherhood. I think there would be much less societal judgement and self judgement if you were a man saying, "I'd rather care for my family by supporting them financially. I never played with dolls." Maybe thinking of that would help you let yourself off the hook a little.

Best,
EJ