I'm very sorry this happened to you... I can sort of relate... only it was my brother rather than just someone I knew... I have never really told anyone, mainly out of fear of how they'd react, desiding that I was gay or something, or come to the conclusion that as I'm male I must be lieing as such events only occur to females.

don't have any inspiring messages or anything at the moment, just wanted to let you know you're not alone in such an expiriance