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seems like such an easy thing to figure out-- why didn't I realize this years ago

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> why? well because you weren't ready yet. either earlier this year or late last year we realized that not everyone resents themselves and that to us was a lights, trumpets and angels moment ::cue up the harps:: seemed like the biggest "duh!" to us but our mind, up until that point, wasn't ready to handle or understand that idea.

glad you made the connection. as to what to do with it? you'll figure that out when you're ready again.

well done and take it easy after figuring out such a huge piece of your puzzle.