In answer to your question "no".
I accepted it quite readily even though it did suck WetRabidDogAss.... Was the missing piece to a puzzle I was trying to solve since age 15.
Acceptance helps alot in my view.
At the moment, not doing so well (refusing to go to work) and I do have my "I hate bp" days and wonder if I'll always "manage"... it ebbs and flows I guess, much like my moods.