this guy needs to grow up and find his bxxls, needing the help of daddy to make decisions is what children do not 29yrolds!
personally i would not get involved until he grew up!

family should be happy that you/ he are happy, if not then they are not wanting what's best for you both.

ultimitely it is your decision whether you want to be with this guy or not, and no one not even he can tell you how to feel or what you should do and only he can tell you if he wants/feels the same, not family, not so called friends, you and him only.

good luck in whatever you decide x