That is true - I used myself as an example, in a narrowly-targeted effort to dissuade you from believing that ALL girls have wants. One exception is enough to negate the claim about ALL. I am sure I am not the only exception though.

So, on eye color: I have green eyes and I like having green eyes. I do sometimes find brown eyes enthralling, but that does not make me wish for brown eyes. I just appreciate the beauty of brown eyes as an observer. Similarly with straight hair or anything else. I like my curly hair, and that does not prevent me from appreciating the beauty of women who have straight hair.

Nor do I see how someone's blue eyes could make me wish for blue eyes. It is a little different with my wanting to be skinnier, because with that, I simply want my old figure back. It is still mine, but it is in the past. I have never wanted anybody else's figure. As an observer, I sometimes find myself enthralled by East Indian women who have very narrow wastlines and wide hips - these women happen to move their bodies in an exceptionally graceful manner. I find the way they carry themselves extremely attractive, but I still do no wish for their figures.